By Brown Ratemo
Once a philosopher named Karl Marx said in his philosophical thought that one’s social class dictated one’s social life.
Basically, Marx meant that if one is in the upper class, life was one of leisure and abundance.
So as to his thought, itsa clear indication that the way on is being brought up by the parents so is the character.
The issue of being whoyou are starts from the parents and the discipline the imparted into you since the earlier ages.
Now that you are an adult and you expect tochange is impossible,believe you me such thing won’t happen but instead you can restrictthe way of thinking so as to curb its spontaneous actions.
I’m expressing due to what’s being experienced in today’s era.
People have turned away from the customs of being presentable, please getme clear, I haven’t said according to the traditional customs ,NOI mean from the way one will see and feel comfortable being with.
The way one walks,dress, eat and generally conducting is very vital to one’s character.Some of the outdated events have to be shun.
First,there is this issue that as rational people have to bury totally.
The habit of going or visiting a relative without their consent isdiversely experienced in the society.Ever surprised by a relative,friend or someone who knows where you live and comes without alerting?
Yes,that’s what I am talking about.A friend told me that his brother tried to visitthem where they used to stay but to his surprise, he found out that they have moved from where the brother knew they were living.
You can imagine the embarrassment.Before we have an ideaof visiting a relative,let them know you are visiting them and that’s etiquette.
When visiting relatives and friends,there are some facts that you need to put in mind.
The habit of doing as your conscious leads in other people’s affairs and things you has to stop because you needto behave as they do,if they take sukuma wiki that’s what you have to take too till you get out to your place. When in Rome,do as the romans do.Secondly, there is an emerging trend that most of the youths have conversantly taken heed of.
The dressing style and neatness of both the body and attire.
Yes I get it, you want to look ‘civilized’ and recognized but NO that’s not the way.
You find that Parents have trained you well,some in a Christianset up till it dawns on you and you get this classy handsome or beautiful young partnerwho from his/her family doesn’t follow parents advice or rather their parents are ignorant of what is supposed to be done concerning child bring up.
You date till the time oftaking her/him to the family arrives and you do all the necessary preparations to make her/him get know as the one.
Humorously or rather unfortunately, you hear from the parents that the partner you broughtisn’t qualified to be with you and they don’t want to see her/him again.
So why is that, maybe he way of dressing, hairstyle,talking above all manners or character. Why not try be who youare in terms of all that because I believe you didn’t born that way.
The society has corrupted us in many ways through various channels and we have to restrict ourselves in some of the predisposing lines which will eventually lead us to losing this earthly creatures.Finally, the eating habits among us is annoying. You invite someone to for a coffee or a meal in a cafe or a restaurant and you offer something to take but the table manners are aren’t observed. Why spit when you try chewing?
Can’t you exercise a little manners instead of embarrassing yourself or your friend? Yes you can.
By Brown Ratemo